10 Body Language Cues Women Find Irresistible
[0:00:00] Now, gents, these first two body language
cues that women find irresistible, if you can master just these two, you are never going
to have a problem starting a conversation with a beautiful woman.
So, what are these cues? What are these magical secrets? Guys, it’s actually very simple,
strong eye contact and smiling at the right moment.
Now, don’t confuse simple with easy to master. So many guys hear these two cues and they
think, “Oh, I’ll just stare and I will smile all the time.” You do that, and she’s
going to think you’re a psycho. And, gents, we don’t want that to happen,
so that’s why it’s so important to understand the nuance difference between staring and
strong eye contact. Strong eye contact, about one to two seconds
depends on the culture or the country. For some of you guys, it’s going to be two and
a half seconds. Other people, yeah, a good three quarters of a second which doesn’t
seem like much of a difference. But, when you understand the primal nature of eye contact
and what can be conveyed in just microseconds, it is a big difference.
And then, there is the second part of that. How do you react to the eye contact? So many
people so many men, their natural reaction is to look down, to look away. Just, we’re
– we’re shy, we’re embarrassed, maybe our nature. But, here is the thing, you’ve
got to practice giving that – giving that fun subtle smile.
It may not come naturally, and that’s why you want to go out there and try this, practice
it. You will fail, it won’t work sometimes, but when it does, guys, yeah, what it does,
that’s what makes it all worth it. This next body language cue that women find
irresistible, a lot of guys know this because we look for it in a woman to be able to signal,
hey, is she interested in us, and that is touching your hair.
When a woman touches her hair, we know that, okay, she’s a little bit nervous, she’s
actually cares about how she looks, she’s interested in the person she’s speaking
with. Well, guess what, guys? It goes both ways.
And this goes back to our primal roots just simply a soothing thing that we do when we’re
around someone that we’re maybe a little bit nervous, we want to impress. She picks
up on it as well, and don’t stop doing it because she loves it.
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All right. So, for this next cue, watch my face closely. [Sound effect] Did you spot
it? The slight raising of the eyebrows. Now, I like this body language cue because it goes
both ways. Both men and women whenever they see someone they’re interested in, they
oftentimes raise the eyebrows. It’s very slight, but if you see it, it’s a good sign.
Next up, we’ve got touching the chin or stroking the beard. What this displays is
that you’re thinking, that you are actually using your brain. Now, they’re not sure
exactly why women do find this attractive. I’d like to think that most men do think
to some degree. But, here’s the deal is that when you do this, it’s a natural expression
that you are listening and she finds this attractive.
And, by the way, if you’ve got a woman who just sits next to you and strokes your beard,
that takes you to a whole another level. Next body language cue she finds irresistible,
when you spot her, you adjust your clothing. You want to make sure you look your best.
When you do those small details, she picks up on it and absolutely loves it.
Now, this next body language cue is so cliché, yet it is still irresistible. In fact, it
can make you twice as attractive to a woman that maybe didn’t even notice you before.
What is it? Guys, walking in and strutting the shoulders. Yes, this is a real thing.
We’ve all seen the cartoons. He walks in and he’s got those – he’s building up
his arms and he’s strutting his shoulders. Guys, this works. But, whey does it work?
This is where psycho – you know I did a study on this and it all is about proportions
because when you strut and you move the shoulders, you draw attention to the shoulders.
[0:05:01] And, immediately what does she look at? She
wants to measure the ratio from your shoulders to your chest to your hips. And she is looking
for the V profile, not so much the bodybuilder. I mean, I know some of you guys are bodybuilders.
Hey, the ladies can’t resist it. Okay. But for most guys, if you simply just have a V
like this, you are good to go. Okay. Maybe you’ve got a little bit of a
midsection you got a little bit of extra weight on you. What can you do? Guys, I’ve talked
about this before, the power of the sports jacket, of the suit jacket. You can wear clothing
that can slim up your profile. Worst case, you’ve got a square. What you don’t want
to have is the circle look. This is considered to be the least attractive.
Now, there are ways to overcome this. Many of you guys are going to say a fat wallet.
Well, I’m not going to argue with that, but I will say even if you’ve got a good
built, throw on a jacket. Why? Because a jacket is going to basically create a point here.
That point is going to draw attention. But, this right here, guys, can make you so much
more attractive, so use it to your advantage. [Sound effect]
Did you catch it? Guys, what we’re talking about here are the lips. Women absolutely
love it when a man licks his lips and he parts his lips slightly. And, guess what? Men, we
find and we find this very attractive on women, hence why do you think they put lipstick on
their lips. The lips, this is, again, something very primal.
Oftentimes, animals human beings, we can pick up things about people when we get close to
them, when we taste them, when we touch them. Have you ever kissed somebody and you’re
like there’s just something wrong about this? I know Marty McFly with his mom, yeah.
Remember that? Hopefully, you’ve never had that instance.
Point here what we’re talking about, guys, is that you can pick things up whenever you’re
seeing this, the health of a person. If someone is really tightening up their lips, if they’re
biting on them, this could be a nervous – it could be some type of health issue they have.
Is it accurate? Not exactly, but it is something cues that we use that are very primal that
tells us, hey, do we want to get closer to them or do we want to push away.
[Sound effect] The next body language cue they find irresistible,
moving slowly, moving calmly, with confidence, collecting yourself, and just making things
happen. Not jumping all over the place, not nervous, not bouncing around, not really anxious
like because guess what this does? It makes them feel anxious, it makes them feel like,
okay, what’s going on, this guy that’s, you know, twitching all over the place, does
he see something I don’t because as human beings, we are constantly looking for a threat.
And, if she’s looking for a threat because you look like you’re looking for a threat,
do you think she’s thinking about anything else? No. She’s wondering are we going to
have to run out of here versus when you’re calm, collected, this calms down other people
and then you can do things. She starts thinking about things that she would like to do with
you in a calm collected manner. Right? This one is simple, good posture. Roll the
shoulders back. When you’ve got good posture, it’s simply a sign of health. An easy thing
oftentimes cured by wearing good clothing that makes you look good and practicing rolling
those shoulders back, going to the gym in the morning.
There are a number of exercises that you can do. But, I would recommend that if you work
at a computer, if you find yourself hunching over, this is something you really want to
address because it just, yeah, it’s just not something people find attractive.
Now, what if you want to relax, do you always have to have the shoulders rolled back and
be standing in attention? No, you don’t. You can lay back and relax. But, what you
don’t want to do, again, is slump over. So, if you’re going to relax, you want to
just lean back. You want to just, you know, maintain still comfortable open pose and,
again, they find that open pose in general attractive because that shows, hey, I want
to take up space, I’m not intimidated by others.
Now, we talked about hunching, but what about actually leaning in? This can be a great thing
especially when she’s speaking because what are you doing? You’re showing that you have
interest, you want to get a little bit closer, you want to make sure that you hear her.
And, when we talk a little bit about eye contact, remember, when you’re listening to someone
about 50 to 70% of the time you can make eye contact with them when you’re having that
conversation. Then, you can look over to other things here or there, maybe if there’s a
group of people, spread that eye contact out. But, about 50 to 70% of the time, you’re
making eye contact and you’re leaning in to show you’re interested in what she’s
saying. So, what video to watch next? How about the
rules of eye contact? If you’re a guy, you need to understand these eye contact rules
I talk about in the workplace and beyond. But, so many guys mess this up. Guys, make
sure that you watch this video right here. [0:09:40] End of audio