10 Body Language Cues Women Find Irresistible (Backed By Science)


10 Body Language Cues Women Find Irresistible
[0:00:00] Now, gents, these first two body language
cues that women find irresistible, if you can master just these two, you are never going
to have a problem starting a conversation with a beautiful woman.
So, what are these cues? What are these magical secrets? Guys, it’s actually very simple,
strong eye contact and smiling at the right moment.
Now, don’t confuse simple with easy to master. So many guys hear these two cues and they
think, “Oh, I’ll just stare and I will smile all the time.” You do that, and she’s
going to think you’re a psycho. And, gents, we don’t want that to happen,
so that’s why it’s so important to understand the nuance difference between staring and
strong eye contact. Strong eye contact, about one to two seconds
depends on the culture or the country. For some of you guys, it’s going to be two and
a half seconds. Other people, yeah, a good three quarters of a second which doesn’t
seem like much of a difference. But, when you understand the primal nature of eye contact
and what can be conveyed in just microseconds, it is a big difference.
And then, there is the second part of that. How do you react to the eye contact? So many
people so many men, their natural reaction is to look down, to look away. Just, we’re
– we’re shy, we’re embarrassed, maybe our nature. But, here is the thing, you’ve
got to practice giving that – giving that fun subtle smile.
It may not come naturally, and that’s why you want to go out there and try this, practice
it. You will fail, it won’t work sometimes, but when it does, guys, yeah, what it does,
that’s what makes it all worth it. This next body language cue that women find
irresistible, a lot of guys know this because we look for it in a woman to be able to signal,
hey, is she interested in us, and that is touching your hair.
When a woman touches her hair, we know that, okay, she’s a little bit nervous, she’s
actually cares about how she looks, she’s interested in the person she’s speaking
with. Well, guess what, guys? It goes both ways.
And this goes back to our primal roots just simply a soothing thing that we do when we’re
around someone that we’re maybe a little bit nervous, we want to impress. She picks
up on it as well, and don’t stop doing it because she loves it.
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All right. So, for this next cue, watch my face closely. [Sound effect] Did you spot
it? The slight raising of the eyebrows. Now, I like this body language cue because it goes
both ways. Both men and women whenever they see someone they’re interested in, they
oftentimes raise the eyebrows. It’s very slight, but if you see it, it’s a good sign.
Next up, we’ve got touching the chin or stroking the beard. What this displays is
that you’re thinking, that you are actually using your brain. Now, they’re not sure
exactly why women do find this attractive. I’d like to think that most men do think
to some degree. But, here’s the deal is that when you do this, it’s a natural expression
that you are listening and she finds this attractive.
And, by the way, if you’ve got a woman who just sits next to you and strokes your beard,
that takes you to a whole another level. Next body language cue she finds irresistible,
when you spot her, you adjust your clothing. You want to make sure you look your best.
When you do those small details, she picks up on it and absolutely loves it.
Now, this next body language cue is so cliché, yet it is still irresistible. In fact, it
can make you twice as attractive to a woman that maybe didn’t even notice you before.
What is it? Guys, walking in and strutting the shoulders. Yes, this is a real thing.
We’ve all seen the cartoons. He walks in and he’s got those – he’s building up
his arms and he’s strutting his shoulders. Guys, this works. But, whey does it work?
This is where psycho – you know I did a study on this and it all is about proportions
because when you strut and you move the shoulders, you draw attention to the shoulders.
[0:05:01] And, immediately what does she look at? She
wants to measure the ratio from your shoulders to your chest to your hips. And she is looking
for the V profile, not so much the bodybuilder. I mean, I know some of you guys are bodybuilders.
Hey, the ladies can’t resist it. Okay. But for most guys, if you simply just have a V
like this, you are good to go. Okay. Maybe you’ve got a little bit of a
midsection you got a little bit of extra weight on you. What can you do? Guys, I’ve talked
about this before, the power of the sports jacket, of the suit jacket. You can wear clothing
that can slim up your profile. Worst case, you’ve got a square. What you don’t want
to have is the circle look. This is considered to be the least attractive.
Now, there are ways to overcome this. Many of you guys are going to say a fat wallet.
Well, I’m not going to argue with that, but I will say even if you’ve got a good
built, throw on a jacket. Why? Because a jacket is going to basically create a point here.
That point is going to draw attention. But, this right here, guys, can make you so much
more attractive, so use it to your advantage. [Sound effect]
Did you catch it? Guys, what we’re talking about here are the lips. Women absolutely
love it when a man licks his lips and he parts his lips slightly. And, guess what? Men, we
find and we find this very attractive on women, hence why do you think they put lipstick on
their lips. The lips, this is, again, something very primal.
Oftentimes, animals human beings, we can pick up things about people when we get close to
them, when we taste them, when we touch them. Have you ever kissed somebody and you’re
like there’s just something wrong about this? I know Marty McFly with his mom, yeah.
Remember that? Hopefully, you’ve never had that instance.
Point here what we’re talking about, guys, is that you can pick things up whenever you’re
seeing this, the health of a person. If someone is really tightening up their lips, if they’re
biting on them, this could be a nervous – it could be some type of health issue they have.
Is it accurate? Not exactly, but it is something cues that we use that are very primal that
tells us, hey, do we want to get closer to them or do we want to push away.
[Sound effect] The next body language cue they find irresistible,
moving slowly, moving calmly, with confidence, collecting yourself, and just making things
happen. Not jumping all over the place, not nervous, not bouncing around, not really anxious
like because guess what this does? It makes them feel anxious, it makes them feel like,
okay, what’s going on, this guy that’s, you know, twitching all over the place, does
he see something I don’t because as human beings, we are constantly looking for a threat.
And, if she’s looking for a threat because you look like you’re looking for a threat,
do you think she’s thinking about anything else? No. She’s wondering are we going to
have to run out of here versus when you’re calm, collected, this calms down other people
and then you can do things. She starts thinking about things that she would like to do with
you in a calm collected manner. Right? This one is simple, good posture. Roll the
shoulders back. When you’ve got good posture, it’s simply a sign of health. An easy thing
oftentimes cured by wearing good clothing that makes you look good and practicing rolling
those shoulders back, going to the gym in the morning.
There are a number of exercises that you can do. But, I would recommend that if you work
at a computer, if you find yourself hunching over, this is something you really want to
address because it just, yeah, it’s just not something people find attractive.
Now, what if you want to relax, do you always have to have the shoulders rolled back and
be standing in attention? No, you don’t. You can lay back and relax. But, what you
don’t want to do, again, is slump over. So, if you’re going to relax, you want to
just lean back. You want to just, you know, maintain still comfortable open pose and,
again, they find that open pose in general attractive because that shows, hey, I want
to take up space, I’m not intimidated by others.
Now, we talked about hunching, but what about actually leaning in? This can be a great thing
especially when she’s speaking because what are you doing? You’re showing that you have
interest, you want to get a little bit closer, you want to make sure that you hear her.
And, when we talk a little bit about eye contact, remember, when you’re listening to someone
about 50 to 70% of the time you can make eye contact with them when you’re having that
conversation. Then, you can look over to other things here or there, maybe if there’s a
group of people, spread that eye contact out. But, about 50 to 70% of the time, you’re
making eye contact and you’re leaning in to show you’re interested in what she’s
saying. So, what video to watch next? How about the
rules of eye contact? If you’re a guy, you need to understand these eye contact rules
I talk about in the workplace and beyond. But, so many guys mess this up. Guys, make
sure that you watch this video right here. [0:09:40] End of audio

100 Comments

  1. Real Men Real Style said:

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    What else did I miss? What body language signs women find attractive?

    Timestamps:

    0:15 – Strong eye contact & smiling at the right moment

    1:45 – Touching your hair

    3:48 – Slightly raising your eyebrows

    4:07 – Touching your chin or stroking your beard

    4:32 – When you spot her, you adjust your clothing

    4:55 – Strutting your shoulders

    6:12 – Licking your lips

    7:10 – Moving calmly with confidence

    8:09 – Good posture

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  2. Đồng hồ & Phụ kiện said:

    great video!

    February 15, 2020
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  3. Derrick Reid said:

    Great video

    February 15, 2020
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  4. ibrahim k said:

    11th

    February 15, 2020
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  5. Hassan Reza said:

    I am 16 and I am already experiencing hairloss. I am from Pakistan so I can't use keeps😢😭.

    February 15, 2020
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  6. Brandon Mcivor said:

    Very nice reference to Grand Theft Auto San Andreas LOL

    February 15, 2020
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  7. Χρήστος Γκορτζής said:

    Love the new editing!

    February 15, 2020
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  8. Sehwan said:

    Antonio's eye-contact in his videos looks so much stronger than that of Daniel Craig

    February 15, 2020
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  9. Don_B the Illuminati said:

    Love them memes😂

    February 15, 2020
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  10. G Dev said:

    Damn that laugh you could pass for the joker

    February 15, 2020
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  11. Zink Baby said:

    Thanks internet dad for teaching me stuff and for the dan bilzerian cameo

    February 15, 2020
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  12. Tudorinc said:

    This cracks me up – I’ll fall back on the fat wallet

    February 15, 2020
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  13. Steve Carter said:

    The farmers carry (with dumbbells) is great for promoting good posture

    February 15, 2020
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  14. Bob Burk said:

    Strong eye contact=be honest with her and with yourself.

    February 15, 2020
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  15. Владимир Харченко said:

    Hello Antonio, great video;)

    February 15, 2020
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  16. Rid Rakib said:

    nice acting at 7:20

    February 15, 2020
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  17. I train UFC Boxing and Ping Pong said:

    Gta san andreas

    February 15, 2020
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  18. Jacob D said:

    That psycho laugh tho.
    Haha

    February 15, 2020
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  19. WCephei77HD said:

    My favorite is not caring about whether she finds anything attractive or not.

    February 15, 2020
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  20. Enter the Bruce 01 said:

    @ Real Men Real Style Thanks as always, Antonio; all the best!

    February 15, 2020
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  21. The Irish Contrarian said:

    Thumbs up for the mad laugh. 🤪

    February 15, 2020
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  22. Mark Sullivan said:

    Great video. Direct points and conveyance.

    February 15, 2020
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  23. black _ d said:

    What if just what if, you combine strong eye contact with slightly licking your lips and smiling at the right time….
    You will become "a sex machine", "a confident stud" 😏😎

    February 15, 2020
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  24. Hank Fuller said:

    The content is getting a little cheaper on this channel..

    February 15, 2020
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  25. Jasvir Singh said:

    You are improving me…and you're improving yourself too time to time….thats awesome

    February 15, 2020
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  26. Blaine Bond said:

    I’ve always naturally given the extra fractions of seconds of eye contact to women. The exact moment you see she her react to it (you can pick up on the .25 second moment she either begins to look away or she expects you to look away ((attractive women do the ladder). At that moment smile at her in that brief moment of reactive recognition that you didn’t shy away and slowly smile while you disengage direct eye contact… Gauge her on that smile you gave her and she will subtly queue to you how she felt about it and hint your next “move”. Just don’t have moves haha, it’s an art some men need to learn. My main advise is never have expectations and don’t feel the need to engage until you know she craves it.

    February 15, 2020
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  27. Moritz Mantel said:

    I appreciate you wanting to make your videos more fun and entertaining, however I really enjoyed your videos for their content and I also liked the way you presented it before. I feel like now you are trying to hard to make it entertaining, when you really don't need to.
    Also, I cringed throughout the whole video, which made it actually less enjoyable for me. 🙂
    I'm 17 and it all reminded me too much of cringe dad jokes.

    February 15, 2020
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  28. monkydoll 69 said:

    Don't let your emotions make your decisions. 🥰

    February 15, 2020
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  29. Mark G. said:

    If the guy drinking wine (1:35) is what women are attracted to, I’m screwed. 😕

    February 15, 2020
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  30. Shreyan Laha said:

    Me when I receive a text from her: 0:42

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  31. Keep it Wausome! said:

    Good stuff Antonio! I used to look away when a beautiful woman would look at, like I’d get in trouble or something. One day I learned to hold the gaze a bit, smile before looking away. It bulky confidence as I got smiles back 😊

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  32. Aminu Babayi said:

    A fan from Nigeria! Great job!!

    February 15, 2020
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  33. Tuli TV said:

    Me out of excitement everytime I see a notification that Antonia posted : 0:42

    February 15, 2020
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  34. S.H. Kaifee said:

    Best Video yet
    Loved the new style of content

    February 15, 2020
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  35. Bob Dylan said:

    When you licked your lips, it gave me a boner. Does that make me gay?

    February 15, 2020
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  36. dwtn81 dwtn81 said:

    00:25 Did you get a bomb beat from Dre?! 😆

    February 15, 2020
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  37. djtaylorutube said:

    Right…got it! When she's looking at me, check the zip on my fly… and hope she spots my "swipe right" body language.

    February 15, 2020
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  38. Sokoya Abdulazeez said:

    someone has been playing GTA

    February 15, 2020
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  39. Dz N said:

    Make a circle by the tip of your index and thumb fingers then insert one of your fingers from your other hands repeatedly

    February 15, 2020
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  40. njuafed71 said:

    Is this a style channel or have u guys run out of style ideas?

    February 15, 2020
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  41. Usman Mirza said:

    Actually this was the body language video I was looking for❤

    February 15, 2020
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  42. imre szabolcs said:

    I would touch my hair but i dont have any. Should I buy fake hair?

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  43. Eric Glenn said:

    Whoa…. point made. That was definitely creepy. Haha.

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  44. Practical Inspiration said:

    Great point on the V-Shape starting from the shoulders. It plays a role in showing a huge amount of confidence too

    February 15, 2020
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  45. Razz_Al _Ghull said:

    That clip with Casino Royale with the GTA San Andreas mission complete theme made me chuckle

    February 15, 2020
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  46. ShinyArjun Singh said:

    wow man…made my life..
    Nice one Subscribed…Keep'em comin….

    February 15, 2020
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  47. Real.Piece.Of.Work said:

    So I should relax look at the woman raise my eyebrows, smile, lick my lips, rub my chin all while arching my back walking slowly and jiggling my shoulders. Consider it done.

    February 15, 2020
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    SÉRGIO MORO TA DIFERENTE KKKKKK

    February 15, 2020
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  49. Dado Skrgic said:

    Tmf and alex costa: nothing
    Alpha M: summary in the discription
    RMRS; summary and timestamps in the discription

    February 15, 2020
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  50. joemad said:

    good vid although it seems the sponsor is counter to the spirit of the channel…many viewers will see through the obvious self-esteem manipulation attempt and it might hurt the legitimacy of the advice…love the channel though, keep up the great work bro

    February 15, 2020
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  51. Riz Kler said:

    Top tips Antonio & I'm itchin to try them out (again haha) 👍

    February 15, 2020
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  52. Philipp Starlinger said:

    MISSION ACCOMPLISHED: +20 in Respect

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  53. Giedrius Paulauskas said:

    3:48 Skip the boring part

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  54. Jorge Bravo said:

    Some women adore the circle look 😁😆

    February 15, 2020
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  55. TheEngineer562 said:

    Hair in the shower drain does not mean hair loss… bald spots and thinning means hair loss.

    February 15, 2020
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  56. Mark E Kar said:

    Speaking of hair, bro u need to get ur eyebrows done

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  57. Jordan Lazaro said:

    sorry pornhub, Antonio just came out with a new video

    February 15, 2020
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  58. joseph stalin said:

    4:22 someone's gonna get laid today

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  59. Jordan Lazaro said:

    "I know Marty McFly with his mom? Hopefully you never had that instance lmao"

    Ever heard of Alabama

    February 15, 2020
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  60. Momo The Elder said:

    I have been following the channel for years and speaking of body language Antonio just has a nice demeanour like an old friend talking to you that is very relaxing to watch.

    February 15, 2020
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  61. xatar said:

    speaking of hair , I had to do a hair transplant at age of 20. My hair receded a lot. KEEPS here i come

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  62. J P said:

    Your videos have become much more comical. I like it!

    February 15, 2020
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  63. PipenFalzy said:

    They love the body language of you reaching into your pocket for your wallet.

    February 15, 2020
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  64. Glass Half Full said:

    Phenomenal editing skills 😂

    February 15, 2020
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  65. thossi09 said:

    "Touching my hair"? But I'm bald … can't I just twirl my moustache instead? Or at least adjust my toupée?

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  66. chris 90 said:

    haha Loved the GTA reference

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  67. Nasser Alajmi said:

    Hahaha The psycho laugh 😂👍

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  68. Jason Lu said:

    I can't lick my lips, my dermatologist told me not to

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  69. Fendi said:

    I shocked when u laugh like that… OMG! 😂

    February 16, 2020
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  70. Michael Barletta said:

    This is funny because I went on a first date last night and the girl I was with said my eye contact game was strong lol

    February 16, 2020
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  71. cjack202003 said:

    Women love the body language of a man's hands opening his wallet. That's irresistible to women.

    February 16, 2020
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  72. Morten Krämer said:

    Is your shirt from John Henric? Looks great

    February 16, 2020
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  73. Nigel McAdam said:

    Full of….

    February 16, 2020
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  74. P3AC3 BAKER said:

    Wow.. im doing all of that subsconsciously no wonder, i always feeling someone watching me

    February 16, 2020
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  75. krusty The Clown said:

    Going bald? Get a set of clippers. Think Jason Stathem.

    February 16, 2020
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  76. Alex Covic said:

    Creep

    February 16, 2020
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  77. Gerhard Symons said:

    Holding eye-contact for a split-second longer takes confidence.

    That's why women respond.

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  78. Will G said:

    Bullshit artist

    February 16, 2020
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  79. Ash Neel said:

    Works great when you're good looking

    February 16, 2020
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  80. Mathinus Wolters said:

    How about winking?
    I tend to wink at girls I already know for jokes,
    but meeting a new girl and actually sign I'm interested is a whole different story.

    February 16, 2020
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  81. Soccer90 Tem said:

    Both RMRS and teachingmensfashion got HIT by that sponsor from Keeps 🤣💯

    February 16, 2020
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  82. Scrapple Samwich said:

    Real men don't waste their time chasing women. Only little boys do things like this bullshit.

    February 16, 2020
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  83. David Broughall said:

    "Stand up straight with your shoulders back." JBP.

    February 16, 2020
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  84. Courtney Gillespie said:

    Psst you don't know what you are talking about, I'm not trying to fool them into liking me.

    February 16, 2020
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  85. Stefan Falx said:

    Dont know why people follow you becuse you font talk sense

    February 16, 2020
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  86. Michael Brodie said:

    Shoes & how you stand in them. Make it or deal breaker right out the gate.

    February 16, 2020
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  87. Diggity Diggit said:

    And drive a silver Aston Martin. Not a 2015 Kia Rio

    February 16, 2020
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  88. ZENO S. said:

    Pardon me guys but I had to sneak this commercial in, thanks for watching.

    February 16, 2020
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  89. himanshu 786 said:

    0:24 🤣. Nice work RMRS video editing team 👍🏻

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  90. himanshu 786 said:

    0:41 meme material

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  91. Vel A said:

    Great video…

    But What if I scratch my butt?

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  92. gene thedancinmachine said:

    smile more with your eyes than your mouth

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  93. Shine said:

    It also helps if you're a hunky British spy lol

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  94. Paul Martins said:

    Almost all your points are great. But the last don’t seems to be too great. You don’t lean forward as this shows you are too interested.. secretly it’s portrays neediness . You only lean when you are maybe going for a kiss, peck, somethings like. But aside that, you want to be relax. And you don’t look relax by learning forward.

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  95. Ayushman Singh said:

    Wrong squats!!

    February 16, 2020
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  96. Trevor GTA said:

    0:42 I loved your new way of saying things like adding of memes and jokes ️😊😊

    February 16, 2020
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  97. Gene said:

    Eye contact? ✔️
    Smiling? ✔️
    Laughing? Errrr…

    😅

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  98. Biggie Smalls said:

    0:42 😂😂😂😂

    February 16, 2020
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  99. Karaoke Apocalypse said:

    You the man!

    February 16, 2020
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  100. TaswcmT said:

    Or just have a big, fat wallet.

    February 17, 2020
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